What is the thing that brings you to marriage? I always wonder. What makes you think that he will be the one? Every girl is looking for their prince charming. Some might think that ‘hmmm I’m gonna look for someone who has similar interest as i do so we can be click all time’ or in turn ‘someone who has what i don’t is the one for me so we can fill each other’s flaws.’ Most of the time, one single person can hardly gives you everything you want. To be simple, you want someone who is smart, good-looking, tall, muscular and funny. But what if the one you love only has 3 of those. Are you going to leave him and start searching for the perfect 5? Especially those who had more than one relationship, they will start to compare. But no, you can’t count love right, can you? If yes then we’re gonna have a love bank marking down who makes loan and who own big debts.
Everyone has their own measurement for love and relationship. The best one does not means will be the right one. Even the right one might not be forever. Looking for someone ‘perfect’ doesn’t mean perfect in person but perfect for you, just like a key and lock. When love hits, its like unlocking a heart. The path to true love is not afraid to love.
While looking for a girl/boyfriend, we might want someone who makes us happy and feel the overwhelming love. But come to marriage, you would want a upgraded version of that who someone will gives you faith to live a wonderful life of two but as one.
We are the people who willing to see our future, but some of the people cant see tomorrow or today …
Everyone just seems to just disappear silently right when you need them. They drift away quietly into the distance. They never even give you an explanation to why you guys dont talk anymore. They just leave you hanging there with all these questions in your mind. They don’t even have the decency to look you in the eye anymore. And it hurts the most because these are the goodbyes that were never said. Nobody ever says goodbye anymore. People just like to leave you with no warning.
Be thankful for what you have, because you never know what will happen next.
Well, my long-distance bf and I have been together for 8 months. He leaving to study away for such a long time (I know that’s not too bad, but it’s far enough that we can’t just hop in the car of the moment to see each other). I am so in love with him. He’s a wonderful person and the answer to all my prayers. Sometimes we talk about a future together. We generally see each other a couple of times each week. We were supposed to see each other every friday night. Now, I may not be able to see my bf . That seems like an eternity to me right now. Yes, I got myself into this situation. I knew it wasn’t easy. Lots of missing.
I wish I could say it was easy, but this whole distance and not being with you thing is really hard for me.